What does saying I love you mean to you? I think in today’s world, people tend to use these three words way too lightly. I mean, I know it’s important to let your loved ones know how much you appreciate them, but you don’t have to say it all the time. What’s worse is when you don’t even mean what you say. It will only make it seem like a chore and sooner or later you will find yourself feeling indifferent whenever someone utter those three words to you. To put it bluntly, it loses its novelty. I’m not saying that telling someone you love them everyday is wrong, what I mean is that you should only say it when you mean it. If you mean it, you can’t say it enough. Also, I cannot stand how some people say they’re in love with someone when they don’t even know much about him/her.

1 John 3:18 – Let us love not with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.

I couldn’t agree more. Actions really do speak louder than words in my opinion. I believe that it’s the littlest things that one does that matters. I have to admit that I’m someone who is frugal with such words, because I never say it unless I really mean it. I tend to be selective who I say it to, because I know that there are consequences that you have to bear after saying it. Having said these three words to people who are unworthy made me realize that I have to be extremely careful of whom I say it to. I’ve learned my lesson and I will not let history itself. I’m not that stupid.

I’ve been thinking about this particular someone recently. And I’m actually thankful that that someone is out of my life. I can’t believe that he’s actually going around defaming me. I always know that he has a big ego, but I never imagined that he’d do something like that. But when I think of it now, I don’t feel anger, nor hatred. In fact, I’m glad that I moved on. So good-bye to you, stranger. :)

The day I say these three sacred words will be the day I’m sure I’d do anything for this person. I’m sure one day I will be able to say this to that very special someone. One day. :)